first time I have ever been Kicked out of a Coin Show!

silverbulldog

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Grouchy coin dealers this weekend at a Show I attended........

First time in my life I have been asked to leave a coin show after getting into it with a dealer.

to make a long story short I got to my states big coin show on the last day with only 2 hours. When I got to the show I was feeling rushed because dealers were already packing up.

To help you understand this sequence of events I was so excited to be able to hunt Pandas which are not normally around my city. I could not wait to find some coins to buy!

I started down the first isle and like usual the dealers are 50-75 years old..I am 30 so they tend to eye me up thinking I am not serious when that could not be further from the truth. I am also very honest with dealers and very friendly to anyone I meet.

In the first isle I found a dealer who had Silver Pandas. His table had double rows of cases so the case with the Pandas was set back and I could not see the quality or even what dates he had if they were Proof or BU so I was standing in between his table and the other Dealers table beside him. The next thing I know I see this old man dealer pointing to the security guard who proceeded to ask me to step back away from the case. I politely said sorry I was just trying to see the Pandas in the back case and wanted to see what coins were good. The dealer made a face like he wanted to jump over the table and fight. He said " you wanted to see if the coins were good?" in a very rude and aggressive tone. I said "yes I wanted to determine if they were high grade or coins I need for my collection" He proceeded to say " you don't know anything about coins these are all good coins" I hastily responded with " No actually I do know because I study pandas and the 1990 in your case has a huge rub on the head".

While this was going on he was showing a very young couple probably around my age a 1991 Panda raw in Capsule. They asked the price and he said $190- which is way to high for this 1991 unless it is double sealed or a high grade. The coin was neither and actually had scratches. The girl looking to buy said to her guy friend do you think this would be worth sending in for grading? They talked back and forth and were on the fence.

While they were inspecting the coin the girl looking to buy said there are some scratches on the coin...the dealer said no those don't effect the value and the coin is Uncirculated.

The dealer looked up and me and told me to get away from his table. I told him I am the customer so I don't see what the problem is here you should treat me as a customer. He said just get out of here!!! I said okay and turned to the girl and the kid looking at the 1991 raw with scratches for $190 and said "If I were you I would not buy that coin from this guy it's not a good deal and would not grade high".

After I said that the guy started yelling get out of here so I walked away quickly as I figured nothing good would come out of this situation. A few minutes later the security came up to me to "Talk"

About 30 minutes later I was looking at 2 gold Proof Panda sets for my Dad with a dealer I know from past shows who I always deal with. While this was going on the dealer from earlier who yelled at me came up and was standing next to me while I was getting ready to look at the proof Pandas in gold. I turned to him and said hey man can I apologize that we had the argument? He flipped out and ran like a little baby back to the security guard who proceeded to walk me out the door and kicked me out of the show. I did not say anything I just walked out since I did not want further problems.

My point to all this is I have never found an industry with such "unusual" behavior to put in nicely. I have come across every dealer in my town and most of them are complete wack jobs with little to no personal skills. These dealers are the face of there company and clearly they do not understand business or sales.

Before this interaction I was considering going to shows on my own now that I have enough coins to make it worthwhile and I know enough about the coins I buy and sell. Now I am not sure I want to be a part of this business other than buying and selling privately due to the "attitude" most of the coin dealers have toward there "customers/clients"

for every 10 dealers I meet only 2-3 of them are people I enjoy dealing with. Let me also say I was shocked to be treated like this as a customer. I run a business and train my salespeople and If my employees act like this they are getting clipped right away.

I will not be going near that guy at the next show and If I go into the coin business you better believe I will be speaking my mind and taking business away from him 1 client at a time.

sorry for the rant and thanks for listening...I needed to vent about this.

coinstacker1984 / silverbulldog
 
hiho said:
Don't bother coming to my shop

I hope your joking.

I line the pockets of many coin dealers and treat all with respect. Once I am treated with disrespect I can find my own way out.

In this case the dealer was rude to me and tried ripping off the young couple next to me so I stood up.

If you saw this interaction I doubt you would say that.
 
Bullion Baron said:
/unsure if hiho is taking the piss or there's more to the above story...

Anyway I have never experienced anything like in the OP, but have been dealt with rudely in coin/bullion stores in the past, usually the rudeness disappears once they realise the young guy has a pocket full of cash and is looking to spend a few thousand dollars :lol:

Yeah i know what you mean. Actually I took $1K with me cash to buy strictly Pandas...so the guy could have easily gotten a good bit of cash and profits from treating me like he would want to be treated...with respect.
 
silverbulldog said:
hiho said:
Don't bother coming to my shop

I hope your joking.

I line the pockets of many coin dealers and treat all with respect. Once I am treated with disrespect I can find my own way out.

In this case the dealer was rude to me and tried ripping off the young couple next to me so I stood up.

If you saw this interaction I doubt you would say that.

its closed down
 
hiho said:
silverbulldog said:
hiho said:
Don't bother coming to my shop

I hope your joking.

I line the pockets of many coin dealers and treat all with respect. Once I am treated with disrespect I can find my own way out.

In this case the dealer was rude to me and tried ripping off the young couple next to me so I stood up.

If you saw this interaction I doubt you would say that.

its closed down

Oh I see. I am a quite reasonable guy with some patients since I have a 2 year old and newborn with a wife who has needs as well. I rarely get into a pissing match with a skunk but in this case I let my emotions get the best of me by trying to get back at the dealer after he treated me so poorly as a "customer".

I am sure Hiho if I met you we would get along and if you had a shop I would buy from you. As a matter of fact I have bought 1,000's of coins in my days and never had an argument with any dealer like this. I just felt akward and embarrassed to be honest after I was kicked out but I learned a lesson from all this. I always say to my employees when we screw something up or something does not go how we expect there is always a lesson to be learned.

Lesson here is I should have walked away immediately rather than getting into it with a grouchy old man who sees me as some young kid..which could not be further from the truth. I am a hard working business man who is serious about coins and any investments I make.

I have also decided I will patronize the dealers who treat me well and hopefully they will be rewarded for business as it should be.
 
Obviously the dealer didn't like you getting in the way of his bullshitting a victim customer
 
I can say that I have been treated similar in a coin shop here in adelaide and haven't gone back since. I too have worked in sales for most of my life and know that the customers are who pay the bills and keep me employed. There is only one coin shop i visit here now weekly and am treated as if I was a good mate. I have heard plenty of stories in regards to local and interstate coin shows and this sounds like a regular happening.
 
Agree with sentiments above. I have met a few great dealers here in Sydney, but also many (both coin/numi and bullion) that are just as described above. Its very odd.
 
my experience with coin show is not so good - coins are always overpriced
dealers are reluctant to sell lower than at least +10% to ebay
that's why I don't bother to go there and waste my time
 
The 2-man coin show that does the rounds here... never has any silver - apart from a few proofs.

He says he always gets asked for siver, but never has any.... hmmm. :/
 
Ive never been to a coin show or shop, but can I just add that too many small businesses of all types these days have a poor attitude like you described above.Its actually harder to be a prick about things than it is to be pleasant.
 
The nicest most polite merchants always do well out of me...

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQCP85FngzE[/youtube]
 
I went to a local coin show and I could not get my wallet open quick enough....the old bloke had 1 and 2 ounce kookaburras at the same price...and the 1 ounce was cheap...
 
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