he does have a point if he was outbid and then some one dumped the bid on him by retracting it, thats pretty shit.
I do respect someone who can own up to their mistakes and you appear to understand the standards will all expect here to be in good standing.Dear all,
I apologise for the commotion I have caused here. I have seen that the highest bidder has retracted his bid (I was outbid already), and given that there are no rules stated in the OPs text and I am new here, I assumed this is the way things go here. I didn't start the retracting, and I wasn't the highest bidder at the time. I will never retract a bid again as I understand the rules now and apologise for misunderstanding. I should not have retracted my bid as I was outbid anyways. If your comments had come earlier after the first retractor I would not have retracted my bid as there would have been no reason for it - I am out of the bid already. As it looked for me at the time, the highest bidder just posts 'retracted' and then I am f'ed if I don't follow suit quickly.
I hope you can understand my reaction, which is different from the highest bidder who retracted. I panicked as I was happy initially to have been outbid and then I see someone being able to retract, and I am the sod who has to pay up then.
Please accept my apologies.
Dear all,
Please accept my apologies.
I for one don't accept your apology.
You only apologising, because you're not the highest bidder right now, so don't have to honor anything.
Imagine If I didn't bid - would you honor your bid and buy?
Anyway - I'm a man of my word and will buy this Kook.
P.S. if I were a moderator I would ban people retracting bids or not paying after buzzing etc. from the forum.
I for one don't accept your apology.
You only apologising, because you're not the highest bidder right now, so don't have to honor anything.
Imagine If I didn't bid - would you honor your bid and buy?
Anyway - I'm a man of my word and will buy this Kook.
P.S. if I were a moderator I would ban people retracting bids or not paying after buzzing etc. from the forum.
Does it say in the rules that if the highest bidder retracts their bid then the second highest bidder has won the auction? That would be a pretty stupid auction IMO.
That’s my thinking. It’s a good buy and hold. Not the best timing. Obviously poor form from the highest bidder.
The only think I would have done differently is discretely approach the OP and see what could be done, rather than make it a dog and pony show.