renovator said:Leadwrist i dont want to sound like a smartarse but my my father is a mechanic & ran a very successful business in the automotive industry for my entire life & i knew how to build an engine in my teenage years & i have been heavily invovled on the motrcycle industry for many years having owned a custom motorcycle & car restoration workshop & 1 of my motorcycles is an ICV which is an individually constructed vehicle what i constructed from scratch including handmaking the frame so repairing a car is not a problem .including painting it wiring it ..I have learned enough skills from friends & family to make my own educated decisions without asking for advice anymore .
One of the best pieces of advice came from my father when i wanted to become an apprentice mechanic & he told me you already know most of it you will be scratching your arse for the majority of the time why dont you do another trade so i took on carpentry.
.Iadmit there was times when i asked for information & advice but im at stage in life where i know enough about a dozen trades to get me by in life i rarely get others to do anything for me after many years of paying for substandard work that i could do myself with the right tools so now i have enough tools to sink a ship my investment in tools is enough to make your eyes water.
Now i didnt say there was anything wrong with MM im sure he has plenty of good things to say for the masses .Im just not 1 of the masses .Like i said b4 theres some things you cant learn from a book or lecture or video ...Its called experience . There is more to learn from experience than most would appreciate.i am & have always been more of a practical person more than a theorist because theory will only get you so far then the practical real life experiences will need to be applied .Life isnt a book its reality.
Those books & videos would have been great over 30 years ago but the video recorder wasnt invented then ...i didnt see colour tv until i left high school So you see we are from different generations where books & .cult following of certain individuals wasnt around We had different mentors like parents & friends.Now the things i dont know about i just pay to have them done & have no inclination to know the hows & whys just fix it & give me the invoice.
now about the genius part..i have a hat with a propellor does that make me a genius?.Well luck is 1 of those things that i believe that you make your own luck .Its where good preparation meets opportunity.If your not prepared when the opportunity arises then you miss the boat . I hope that explains the questions you needed answers for
renovator, Firstly just to make it clear, I wasn't trying to patronise you by sarcastically calling you a genius. The point I was trying to make is it would be hard to reach your true potential without learning from other people.
I made the mechanic analogy to raise a question about a hypothetical person who had no knowledge in a particularly field. No doubt you learnt a lot from your father, but what's the difference between learning from your father, or someone else's? To me reading a book is no different to asking someone's advice who is more knowledgeable than myself. When you were a teenager you may have been able to 'tinker' with cars or old engines without too much consequence if something went wrong while you were learning. In regards to your personal finance, if you make a mistake because you don't fully understand what you are doing, you can lose money. A mistake that could have been avoided if you took advice from other people. I think we're just going around in circles here. We might just have to agree to disagree with each other. I have read a lot of books on various topics and while they all may not have been helpful, I don't regret reading them as I now have the option whether I want to use or believe what I have learnt.
And what you do with cars and bikes sounds very interesting. When I was a teenager I was always into fixing and playing around with my cars. Now I'm more into motorcycles (hence; LeadWrist) but these days just don't have the time to give her the love and affection she deserves.