Hi brando090,
I gather you're a new buyer to silver - about the biggest faux pas you can make is ask someone where or how they store their metal. Personal security is paramount, people are not going to post pictures of the contents of their safe or deposit box (or shoebox or whatever), as it is too easy to trace an online identity (even one that is relatively anonymous such as a forum name) back to a real person.
A lot of trading takes place between members here, so a lot of personal information gets shared around - privacy is paramount.