*Big decisions, small decisions.*
I observed that my very close friend has fantastic chemistry with his wife and they seem to be having a very happy married life. Just for curiosity sake I asked my friend: "What is the secret behind your Happy Married Life?"
He said: "You should share responsibilities and respect each other. Then there will be absolutely no problems."
I asked: "Can you please elaborate?"
He said: "In my house, I make decisions on the bigger issues whereas my Wife decides on the smaller issues. We do not interfere in each other's decisions."
Still not convinced, I asked him: "Give me some examples."
He said: "Smaller issues like, which car we should buy, how much amount to save, when to visit the super market, when and where to go on vacation, which sofa, air conditioner, refrigerator to buy. Monthly expenses are all decided by my wife. I just agree to it."
I asked: "Then, what big things remained for you to decide?"
He said: "My decisions are only for very big issues. Like whether America should attack Iran, whether Britain should lift sanctions over Zimbabwe, whether Dhoni should retire from Cricket etc etc. and do you know, my wife NEVER objects to any of these decisions
I observed that my very close friend has fantastic chemistry with his wife and they seem to be having a very happy married life. Just for curiosity sake I asked my friend: "What is the secret behind your Happy Married Life?"
He said: "You should share responsibilities and respect each other. Then there will be absolutely no problems."
I asked: "Can you please elaborate?"
He said: "In my house, I make decisions on the bigger issues whereas my Wife decides on the smaller issues. We do not interfere in each other's decisions."
Still not convinced, I asked him: "Give me some examples."
He said: "Smaller issues like, which car we should buy, how much amount to save, when to visit the super market, when and where to go on vacation, which sofa, air conditioner, refrigerator to buy. Monthly expenses are all decided by my wife. I just agree to it."
I asked: "Then, what big things remained for you to decide?"
He said: "My decisions are only for very big issues. Like whether America should attack Iran, whether Britain should lift sanctions over Zimbabwe, whether Dhoni should retire from Cricket etc etc. and do you know, my wife NEVER objects to any of these decisions