PrettyPrettyShinyShiny
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Last night, my gf and I were invited over for dinner with our neighbours of Sri Lankan descent for the first time. We've had over-the-balcony chats before, but this was our first invite over for tea.
Despite the huge age gap between us, we had quite a lot to talk about - we were all interested in travel which accounted for the bulk of the conversation. What I found interesting (and I didn't lead on too much myself) was how the discussion briefly weaved it's way over to gold and silver. The Sri Lankan and Indian cultures appear interesting to my western eyes and the dowry system even more so. We were discussing how the wealth of the family dictated the size of the dowry and how gold and silver were simply collected and stockpiled over a family's life often used as a dowry payment later -of course that's in addition to houses and cars and anything else of value they've amassed over the years. The topic of large denomination currency in India being confiscated also popped up. I just listened to hear what he had to say. He thinks it's all to do with eliminating drug money/corruption.
Sadly, towards the end of the evening, it felt as though they were trying to convince us to get into the property market - now of all times. :S I'm sure they were just trying to guide us with good intentions at heart.
Anyway, it was certainly an enlightening evening!
PPSS
Despite the huge age gap between us, we had quite a lot to talk about - we were all interested in travel which accounted for the bulk of the conversation. What I found interesting (and I didn't lead on too much myself) was how the discussion briefly weaved it's way over to gold and silver. The Sri Lankan and Indian cultures appear interesting to my western eyes and the dowry system even more so. We were discussing how the wealth of the family dictated the size of the dowry and how gold and silver were simply collected and stockpiled over a family's life often used as a dowry payment later -of course that's in addition to houses and cars and anything else of value they've amassed over the years. The topic of large denomination currency in India being confiscated also popped up. I just listened to hear what he had to say. He thinks it's all to do with eliminating drug money/corruption.
Sadly, towards the end of the evening, it felt as though they were trying to convince us to get into the property market - now of all times. :S I'm sure they were just trying to guide us with good intentions at heart.
Anyway, it was certainly an enlightening evening!
PPSS
