I might have asked about this on the old forum but can't find it on the search function. What's the best way to bequeath PM's and such to someone without grubberment involvement? Can i write a letter containing instructions on where to find my stack and other instructions on how to distribute/manage my stack etc and include it with our wills? I want to be able to leave my stack to my kids in the event that my partner and i simultaneously predecease them. The instructions on how to find it would be such that the only the executor would understand the instructions. ( i don't trust that the executor won't be the only person to read it though this is my wish. solicitors etc might read it??) Can I include an envelope or something with our wills that contains instructions for the executor but can only be read by them in such an event? Can I include a clause in our wills that states that the contents of the envelope are only to be opened and read by the executor in the specific event of both of us predeceasing the kids. Plus other instructions in the letter stating what to do with the stack according to whether the kids are still minors or of age. I just want to be able to direct the executor to my stack and administer it if the kids are minors and the kids to it if they are over 18 should we both predecease them. All without legal disclosure. Can I do this?