i have a new girlfriend and things are starting to get serious. i havnt told her about my obsession/investments yet and im wondering if i ever should. im 26, besides my metals i have nothing. well no other wealth or investments that anybody official would need to know of. and metals being outside of the system...i dont even have metals.... so if i tell my girlfriend now, or wife at the time of this pit of burning money i like to throw my cash into and later down the track we divorce...what happens to the PMs if she wants half...can i just say no?? can she run to her lawyer and they will send some guys around to count my stack? or find out if it even exists?